The point I’m trying to make about the sex industry especially surrounding the documentary “Hot Girls Wanted” is the men who run these porn sites and that run these brothels (which I am saying the house that the girls stayed in Florida is) are making a lot of money off these amateur porn stars and these girls don’t know what they are really getting into. They think that they are just going to make a couple thousand dollars and leave and they soon realize it’s not that easy. Once they let them go they are done. Is that how it should be? Totally up to the discretion of the men? The women get little say so in what they do. They have to pay up for their services of course. It’s interesting how some women feel empowered by sex work but not the sex industry, there’s a difference. I’m curious to see what you all think!
Friday, October 30, 2015
Sex Industry: Porn is Who's Moneymaker? (Faith's Post)
The point I’m trying to make about the sex industry especially surrounding the documentary “Hot Girls Wanted” is the men who run these porn sites and that run these brothels (which I am saying the house that the girls stayed in Florida is) are making a lot of money off these amateur porn stars and these girls don’t know what they are really getting into. They think that they are just going to make a couple thousand dollars and leave and they soon realize it’s not that easy. Once they let them go they are done. Is that how it should be? Totally up to the discretion of the men? The women get little say so in what they do. They have to pay up for their services of course. It’s interesting how some women feel empowered by sex work but not the sex industry, there’s a difference. I’m curious to see what you all think!
Thursday, October 29, 2015
Sex Industry: Classes of Sex Workers - Amber
Even in the words used to describe certain sex workers, there are certain connotations to their value. “Hooker” and “whore” are used not only as insults and slurs but denote a lower class standing – of both the sex workers and the clients – while “call girl”, “escort” and especially “Madam” seem to dance around the job that these sex workers perform and connote a much higher class standing. Why is there even a distinction?
For most of it, I think money can be made accountable. Oftentimes prostitutes who charge a couple hundred dollars for some of their services are seen as lower class whereas a call girl who charges a couple thousand dollars for the same services are seen as a higher class. Why? I originally thought this could be related to the clients that certain sex workers have access to. If you are a street-level prostitute who has no connections to the industry, a capitalist perspective on getting money would be to lower your prices to bring in a larger customer base. However, Ava Xi’an provides a different explanation that is related to self-worth in this New York Times article: “Tell a guy you’re $100 and they’ll treat you one way -- tell them you’re $1,500 and they’ll treat you better.” This struck me as it reminded me a lot of the ideas of street-level prostitutes being “worthless”. They have huge rates of physical violence and are considered “fair game” when it comes to assault because they are not seen as humans, according to Dr. Phylis Chessler in this Women’s Issues article. Charging more for the same services seems to imply worth to the client – and seems to discourage violence because there is a larger sum attached to the woman. This is yet another example of how we conflate violence with oppressed groups in society.
Further, sex work seems to be "more empowering" for the higher-class sex workers – who can also double-up as part-time “girlfriends”. They do a lot more than just sex during their job hours – this article from the New York Daily News is very blunt about the time spent with clients: "Let's just say that sex lasts for about two minutes and the rest of the time the girl is schmoozing him and feeding his ego." And it seems to take an upper class upbringing to be one of the so-called “escorts” who can afford to charge such amounts for their time and services: “The women were educated, could converse on political issues or on philosophy or in another language. They were women you wouldn't feel embarrassed about taking out to dinner with your business colleagues” (NY Daily News). To me this immediately looks like the needs or wants of the client (often male) supersede those of the sex worker (often female) – and some men don’t want to “dirty themselves” by “slumming it” to have sex. Is this really empowerment if the escort is there to make a man feel better about himself? It also makes me feel like the only way to make a lot of money doing sex work is if you already come from a family that had a lot of wealth and resources - which can also reinforce the stereotypic idea of a poor or working-class street-level prostitute who is "dirty" both literally and metaphorically.
I feel very much conflicted about this topic as a whole – while I want people to engage in work that they find beneficial to them in some way, I am also very alarmed at how much sex work seems to reinforce the patriarchy and socioeconomic inequality. To me, it feels wrong to criminalize and discount sexuality when it is, for a lot of people, a large part of everyday life – but it also seems to be doing a lot of harm to some of society’s most vulnerable individuals. I really look forward to engaging with this topic with all of you on Monday.
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